With that in mind, I think it's safe to say that I've known her for a longer than most of you." Zach laughed with all the rest."I wanted to touch a li...tle bit on what Zach said. Sometimes parents are the last to know when something's going on in their kids' lives, and that was the truth in our case. We didn't have any idea how unhappy Meredith was until the night she came to us and said, 'Mom, I slit my wrists and I need to go to the hospital.' We honestly had no idea."I've never met Brandon's. We initially met online, clicked, and had already hung out a few times and had incredible sex. Standing 6’2 with shaggy blond hair, I was immediately attracted to his muscular but lean athletic body. Once we spoke on the phone and I heard his sexy German accent, I knew I wanted to hear him whisper dirty, nasty things to me in German. We arranged to meet up on Saturday afternoon once he finished up some lab work. I picked him up at the T station and we headed back to my place. The plan was for. At first it was very flattering, and I attributed it to Jesse's overenthusiastic praise. Later it became obvious, even to me, that even minor celebrity was rewarded.I also discovered that every sport has its groupies, and having an All-American designation after my name made me a lot more popular than I would otherwise have been, which I found most uncomfortable. I really wanted people to like me or dislike me for who I was, warts and all, rather than for any awards or achievements that had. We had plenty of recreational sex, but lots and lots of "make love sex" as well. In her mind she learned how to connect the two by the pleasure factor. I would always go back to where she got excited "feeling dirty". It embarrassed her at first but I got it through to her that she wouldn't think of doing any of those things with a person she didn't love, and she agreed saying, "No one but YOU". If we both consent, there is no harm.As much as Chelly's idea for more bonding was more sex, I think.
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