She said ‘We are not together so what ever happens with you or me is fine, ok?’ I agreed I picked her up and we went to a townhouse off campus whe...e the party was in full swing like college k**s do. I was a bit older than them but noticed no one cared and even some girls were flirting with me. Guess being older does help sometimes. We started drinking beer and she danced with me and alot of different guys, the music was loud and even saw her smoking some weed with a group of people. She was at. It's not just up to me." "Well, I am not prepared to sacrifice my marriage, or yours for that matter, but I do hope we get to enjoy each other again. It was a special night," I confided honestly. "I hope so too. And I agree, there are four people involved here, and we cannot sacrifice anyone's marriage just because you and I connect," he agreed. "I wonder how Jen and Tom made out last night?" I asked, not really expecting an answer. "I am sure they had a great time as well. Jen may have taught. “Hi Aunt Ria” I said hugging her. My cousin was the spitting image of her mother except her mother had blonde hair and not brown hair. “Hi uncle Hendri” I said shaking his firm hand. He always had a firm handshake and you can tell a lot of a man by his handshake. “How was your flight? Did you enjoy it?” Ria asked me and I nodded and we proceeded to the car.The drive back to the beach house was uneventful we just kept talking about the vacation ahead and what we are going to do. I was pretty. So I had vehemently insisted that I be allowed to stay at home and assured them that I could take care of myself very well. Which was true - I was very mature for my age, both in looks and mentally, so my parents didn't take long to agree.My mom told me that if there was any problems whatsoever I was to call my brother, who lives on his own about an hour away - which is the logical thing to do anyway and thus exactly what I'd have done no matter what in such a situation, but I nodded and looked.