– And what can you say about this guitar?– This is a four-stringed musical instrument called pipa. According to the Chinese tradition pipa is asso...iated with woman’s genitals. The strings of pipa are presented in the scrolls as vagina entrance, the sound board is a wet depth of a vagina. You should pay attention to the man playing the pipa passionately, touching the strings with fingers and caressing the sound board with a palm…– She is obsessed with sex! – Vicky whispered to me. – Why don’t we. We kissed for hours in gardens, beaches, and behind malls; anywhere that afforded us privacy. We both lived with our own parents (as is common in Singapore). He quickly became my first boyfriend. Later, my parents would be horrified to find out that their decent Chinese daughter dated outside of her ethnicity, to a dark-skinned boy. (This non-politically-correct view was common among Chinese Singaporeans ten years ago.)I'd been reading online teenage sex-advice forums since I was f******n, and. .still leant over your desk you place your hand on your crotch to test...so far you are dry, but for how long can you keep it up?....suddenly you are aware of a male colleague standing behind you...you begin to sweat and feel self-conscious, not knowing what he has seen or what he is thinking....he has a smirk on his face and you notice his eyes glancing down into your blouse.....nothing new there then....half of you wants to call him a pervert… half of you wants so desperately to be fucked by. It wouldn’t be long before I would be turning 50 and I hadn’t worked in years, so if I did leave what in the hell would I do? I could do many things, just nothing that carried a degree with it. Basically I was uneducated and that pretty much would leave me on the streets. The notion seemed unthinkable, but there it was in a small little bundle at my feet. Everything I owned was in ‘her’ name because it was easier that way, well at least it had seemed easier at the time, but as my stomach.