" Every day," she said stiffly."OK, then," said the doctor smoothly. "For all but five or six of those days each month you were relatively safe anyway... which means you had sex roughly ten or fifteen times when you were fertile. Since spermicidal alone is only effective 30% of the time anyway, that means that, for all intents and purposes, you had unprotected sex ten times. That's probably how you got pregnant." But..." She didn't know what else to say."Read the instructions," he said. "Every. I believe she took my suggestions to heart but never acted on them. J is not a slut or hotwife... yet.As I was saying my wife J has always had a soft spot for guys that are innocent and shy. Not the posers!The wallflower.The sad sack.The Introvert.The computer geek.The ________ fill in the blank.My favorite is the chess club geek.I just never knew her soft spot had a soft spot.J sees the shy, insecure guys asking for help, needing help, and wanting help.She has attempted to fix shy guys, making. Cat and I started going to all kinds of porn conventions and strip clubs and raves. She started dressing as the “Black Angel” and I uaually just showed up in ripped jeans and tee-shirt, though everyone knew me because I always wore a bright yellow bandana on my head. People began trusting us to guide them to fun, and in return, we experienced group sex scenes I can only say were far too frenetic and crazy to ever begin to describe in writing. Then Cat died. She had been to a party and was. "Eleven days ago," he began, "I was walking down a New York City sidewalk on my way to work, when I saw the first airplane strike the north tower of the World Trade Center. I stood there in disbelief as it burned, and in anguish and terror as it collapsed." He took a deep breath, fought back the tears, and continued in an obviously tortured voice, "I heard my wife's last words on my cell phone as she rode the top of that huge building down."He took another deep breath and continued in a more.