"Looks like it was about a week before he went into the slammer. Latest domestic was the same date he was busted for resisting arrest, but the assault...charges were dropped." So he got out on bail and convinced her not to press charges," I said. "But he didn't count on the cops pushing their part, and ended up in jail anyway." Back in jail," said Charlie. "He's been in and out since he turned eighteen." Sounds like she could use a little happiness," I said."Damn straight," said Charlie."Okay. Well, PJ had seen therapists on and off for years, for depression (this was long before she was diagnosed as a multiple). I went with her occasionally, when one therapist or another needed to meet me or felt I needed to be a more active participant in the therapy.At one such session, habits were discussed. I won't list all the annoying little things that married people don't realize they do that annoy the hell out of their partners. Some of them are too personal. Most of them are trite, though.. M. in the evening, when she calls me on my extension and asks me if we could talk. I had nothing better to do, so I agree. My gmail is again logged back in, but this time she pulls a chair and sits behind the monitor. I feel safe. We start on general topics and start going personal, when she asks me if I have any girlfriend? I told her no. So she replies back that is the reason you surf the net, for all these dirty stuff. I got in the mood and get back to her…Why is it dirty? You are married,. " Damn," I laughed, "Busted."But she strode on ahead and I was able to confirm that they were indeed white."Wow, this is nice," she said as I switched the lights on, "In fact it's incredible."Almost the whole of one wall was taken up with a giant plasma screen television and music centre combined. I pushed a button and another wall was illuminated; it was made completely of huge glass panels which opened up to let in the warm night air. Another button lit up the large balcony with the chairs.