I'm not much for religion but she has a deep and abidingfaith that deserves respect. Grace is a small thing but important to her. Whenshe finished she...looked up and put her other hand on top of mine. "Thank you,this is so wonderful." "The night is just beginning. Wait till it's over before you pass judgment." Ileered in a suggestive way. She laughed and playfully punched my arm. "C'mon,let's eat before the food turns cold." Good food, good conversation, and a delightful companion are the key. Belle went silent and Alan blushed – it appeared to me that Belle was allowing Alan to make the running in stating what their relationship, if any, was. Alan said that he and Belle were in a relationship outside of work and was happy to leave it at that when Belle gave a distinct cough.Alan, apologised to Belle and then, blushing even more, admitted that they also were in a D/s relationship, but that Belle was the Dominant. Belle then told Alan to show how much She was the Dominant. Alan stood. The day after the other wives were mortified and called Delia and said that they had made a big mistake and that they should never talk about this again. Delia went on to say that she hung up saying OK but found herself calling one of the guys at the party again, named Derek, and again meeting him for sex. Not alone but with 2 other guys from the party again. I became very angry, talking about divorce etc..., but Delia was very pragmatic and matter of fact stating that she would basically take. For a moment I wasn't sure what to say to that."You weren't...jealous?" I inquired, somewhat surprised as I thought about some of the implications of that."Well," my white 'father/parent' said, "not really. I was just as open to the idea of your mother having Omar's baby (which is YOU) as she was. I saw no harm in it. I still don't."I thought about my other sibling, two years younger than I, and that she had darker skin than either of my parents; and it suddenly occurred to me, that she, too,.