I know you've been wanting to all evening." Ask you what?" I said curiously, though there was one thing I was interested in asking her about, though I...d purposely refrained from doing so."Why I never got married again." Probably for the same reason I won't either," I responded. "Too set in my ways for one thing, and not enough energy, or inclination to break someone new in," I said making her laugh. "But you're younger than I am, and obviously living alone and single for a lot longer too .... Then he would take me home. He used to tell me how pretty I was. So I was really over come by his constant praise I started to take sexier changes of clothes and staying longer for the drinks which started as cokes but ended up as beers. Never having drunk before it wasn't long before I was becoming tipsy, really tipsy. He never ever tried to touch me up to that point, though I had pecked him on the cheek when he asked one night. Then we started to joke on, wrestle and tickle each other.. So I slid into the water feeling incredibly liberated and began my swim. Once I started to swim I could feel the speedo fitting better and better. I seemed to get smaller and I swam and it felt so amazing that I ended up swimming an extra 10 laps (mostly because he kept swimming too). I kept swimming next to this guy and noticing how amazing he looked (he was a LOT better of swimmer than I am) and I caught myself checking him out as we swam our laps.He finished his swim and left the pool and I. I speak from experience on this. You don't have to be a Dom or her a slave, but she must know that she is your slut. You have to take ownership of her, or someone else will.'Shelly looked at me and as she did I realized what Sam had said was true. She had started to look to him for her orders and had been paying less and less attention to me. My thoughts were torn though. I had never been one to hit or want to hit my wife for any reason.Shelly made up my mind pretty quick on the matter though..