Before I was done, I heard the doorbell. My husband wasn't happy that he had to answer the door without me, but I wasn't quite ready yet. He let the g...y in. We lived in an upstairs one-bedroom apartment at the time. They came upstairs and sat on the couch making small talk. I called out from the bathroom and said I'd be just one more minute, and asked my husband to pour me a glass of wine.I came out of the bathroom wearing my husband's favorite little black spaghetti-strap dress because I knew. "You can stay here for the night," she assured him. "I know the person who lives here."She turned the car to point into the driveway. The car lost traction on the slight incline and the wheels spun in the fresh snow. It was knee high by then. James got out to push the car up the hill. After great exertion and twenty minutes of pushing and spun wheels, the car staggered up the driveway and came to rest alongside of the side door of the house. Miss Martin shut off the motor, and James followed. Then I slept over and forgot about the friend request. While checking my Facebook account again at night, I saw that the request was accepted and then a message –She: Hi there.Me: Hello.She: So, you know me?Me: Think so..She: Really?Me: Yeah.She: What makes you feel so? I don’t know you and..Me (interrupting her): Your eyes.She: Umm. Thank you!Me: Friends?She: Sure..But tell me about yourself.Me: You want to know me. Then let’s meet tomorrow.So, the planning was done and it was decided to meet. I had to work my way up to strong drinks and the older man called me wimp because of it. I didn't mind, since I wasn't trying to be macho. After all I was the mother of two. One of my kids was a son 12 and the other was a daughter 14."So how are the kids?" he asked. I spent the next hour talking about the kids and even the business. I was beginning to really relax after that hour."So how is retirement?" I asked."I have done better things," he replied. "It does beat doing this every day." You.