.. But you make it sound like Ramón has no life outside of watching over me.”“We’ve established that he doesn’t take vacations, and on his da... off he’s with you and your grandfather, so what about dating?”Valeria blushed slightly, picturing the girls on campus flirting with Ramón. Several had approached at different times in the cafeteria or between classes and invited him to join ‘study’ groups.But not me!Pretty brazen asking him out for coffee while he was sitting right next to me! The girl. We had done our job as parents. This goes to show you that black men and black women can get together, have both family and career, and find happiness and success on their own terms. It’s not impossible. Chantal and I love and respect each other. I respect Chantal and she respects me. We don’t undermine each other at every turn. When I told her I wanted to go back to being a Prosecutor, she was very supportive. We don’t fit the image of the bickering, eternally angry black couple everybody. She had gotten a sitter and she was horny, nervous and scared. I took my time walking her around the shop and I bought her a pair of Harley panties and a little halter top when I checked out, she was VERY embarrassed. She said, "what if Ray finds them?" I said him you both then for him or keep them hid to wear for me, I gave her a naughty wicked smile. She was red faced and very embarrassed and nervous. We got into her car and she said, "where too" very nervous like. I reached over, took her. “Can you help me with the calculus homework?”An innocent question? Just a friend? Had Tracy worked out I was a swot and was trying to use me? Would I end up doing her homework for her? Grasping at the chance to be real friends with Tracy my libido overruled my doubts and hastily replied in the affirmative. And that was why, on the bus home, my phone dinged and Tracy had texted me her home address and a suggested time!My parents made me extra nervous at dinner by exchanging knowing smirks and.