There he told me the 'new' rules of our home. I signed a contract that night stating I would honor him as HOH and obey him or I would be punished. The...term of the punishments were not spelled out. But that I should trust him to act appropriately was.Some might take umbrage in this story. But I don't. My tears that night were from a sore butt yes but also they were tears of relief. Utter relief. I had wanted someone to take control of me for so long that it hurt. I needed this like a fish needs. Persia was in ascendancy, and Babylon had fallen not long before. There was a climate of welcome to traders, and roads were built and patrolled, keeping them free of bandits and little taxing kingdoms and warlords.The Great King was strong, and all the power of the Satraps derived from him. It was courtesy for traders to stop in and present themselves to the various local rulers, and announce their intentions, and make a small gift, not a bribe but more acknowledgement that one was submissive. I and Pooja left for the meeting. We both got free at 9:30 and we called aunty she told that we can move to some place in m.g road for dinner we all had some beer and aunty had whiskey she was bit unstable so as she could not even walk so I had to carry her in my arms. We reached hotel and aunty was telling that after so many years of marriage she didn’t get happiness in her life and see the fait that even Pooja didn’t had any of that so I was convincing both of them Pooja also started to cry.. I don't smoke or do drugs, I have great grades, I never ask for anything, or at least not anything too extravagant. Yet when I asked her this morning if we could talk about my clothes, she just flat-out said no. Not just no to allowing me to wear sexier clothes, but no to even talking about it!" There must be a reason for her being so stubborn?" It's probably because of how she was raised. Apparently her mother never let her wear anything but long dresses, and maybe she just figures that's the.