He's also wornlipstick and had his nails polished a shimmery pink. He thrown a fitwhen his mother and aunt had wanted to use their camera phones to t...kehis picture. There was NO WAY this humiliation was going to bepreserved. He also knew that his mom would want to show it to herfriends back home so they could see how 'cute' he was. That was NOTgoing to happen.He had actually frozen when his aunt laughingly suggested that theyshould go out to dinner with him staying dressed like that. He. I even offered her to put her hands inside my jacket for warmth as the evening got cooler. I still can’t remember her name. But I remember she wanted to be a veterinarian, and was unsure about working and student loans. We were all wrecked by student loans and clinging to our breath in prayer that there’d be enough money to finish our degrees. With the amount of fear and stress we all felt economically, socially and emotionally, her hug was the best gift I received for years. Enough that I. I realized I didn’t even know his name. He didn’t answer, he just followed with my next instruction…***************************“Now I want you to go for a drive.” He said.Without even thinking about it, I replied, “OK”.“Drive to the Target parking lot in XXXXXXX. Park far away from the store entrance, but right under one of the parking lot lights. Go exactly as you are. And bring the tea.”“OK”…I got up to get the keys to my Accord but realized I didn’t know what I was supposed to do at. Before she knew it the last hymn, her favorite, was being sung:"Praise God this hour of sorrowShall bring a greater morrowI go to paradise.My mother and my fatheras round my grave you gatherlay me to rest with song of praise."She loved the song so much she had requested that the first verse be inscribed on the stone making her grave as her epitaph."I was on earth your treasureNow I know naught but pleasureYe weep in bitter woeBelieve what ere betidethGod's Love in all abidethand soon your tears.