Eventually, I decided that after being single for a longer time, I might as well give a relationship a shot again and that I'd try this with Y. So we ...greed to meet each other in Jakarta in March.Y is originally from Pasuruan, so it was a nice gesture of her to come all the way from there to Jakarta to meet me. We picked Grand Indonesia as our meeting point. I was there in time and on my way to Starbucks, where we agreed to meet. I looked around and saw a tall, shy-looking Y, holding her purse.. Aren't you going to fight for me?" Yet," I said. "You haven't done anything yet. Why wait?" She had moved over next to me as she always did when we were in bed. I pulled away from her."I do love you," I said. "More than I ever knew I could. I love you more than you'll ever know and far more than I should. When you come to visit me at work have you ever looked at some of those women there?" Yes, I have," she hissed. Her jealousy was evident in the tone of her voice."Have I ever cheated on you?". Then came the Monday when Marge said to me:"You will never guess what happened this weekend." Not without at least a clue." It was something that almost happened." Obviously I'm not going to get it so go ahead and tell me." Susan called me and asked me to stop by yesterday afternoon." So what? She's your best friend and you are always going over to her place to see her or she is going to your place." Gary was there." Again, so what?" Gary said yes to a threesome! It was awesome. I don't think. Be as open and frank as you want. Im a grown up” she laughed again. Her grin was just grabbing me. “Well OK. I joined the site just out of curiosity and to see if there would likely to be any ladies who liked what I enjoyed doing. I got chatting to Karen about it through the site, then email, then text etc. Anyway we agreed to meet over a drink, and there was no mention of anything sexual, as we both need to click with the other person first. We met a couple of times and we then agreed to.