There were plenty of times that I questioned my sexuality. At first, like everyone, I thought it was a phase that most women go through. Looking back ...t it, I thought wrongly. It all went back to my first bisexual experience. It was November 2004 and I was being ready to be sworn into the United States Army. It was the night before I had to go to the MEPS station (Military Enlistment Processing Station). There were a group of people just like me standing around, they were entering the military. Certainly it avoided thewhole problem of a body turning up somewhere with all the problems of forensicsand the rest. I mean, I know there isn?t a TV series called ?CSI: Norwich? but that doesn?t meanthat all those complicated skills aren?t available out here in the sticks. Andit did look as if she had some saleable skills. She was sitting on the floor,brushing her hair. ?Well,what do you think?? ?Ithink those aren?t the usual skills for an Oxford graduate.? ?Theyare if you?ve got a student loan. My name is Sean Massey. I'm a sophomore in high school. I'm fourteen and I'm an only child. I like computers and I'm on the wrestling team." Well, Sean, I don't think I need medical help, but I could use a good, strong wrestler to help me into the house." Did you hurt your hip?" Some, but I think that's just a bruise. It's my ankle. I really twisted it. By the way, my name is Carole Gruden. Let's skip the age stuff, OK? How about you use some of those wrestling muscles to help me sit up,. There inthe mirror I saw wet white and yellow hair on my head. While thrillingit was not quite right.Once again I was combing a gel in, this time it was a purplish blue.Back to the easy chair with my towel over my shoulders. The timer dingedagain. This time I was presented with beautiful silver hair with just aslight blue tinge, I was a blue hair, I laughed. Methodically, using awebsite as a guide I began to tightly roll my hair into the bristles ofthe curlers. A pink plastic pin held them.