He softly squeezed it, and then withdrew it to get up for the day. After taking care of his morning business, Bob got some coffee brewing by the fire ...nd planned out the day. Not long after he laid some 2×4’s out to start on the walls, Kathy woke up. ‘Morning Bob,’ she said with a slight smile. ‘Morning back. Coffee’s by the fire if you want some.’ ‘Thank you.’ After she got her coffee, and took care of her business, Kathy joined Bob. They got one side up, and half the front done when they. Day 13The doctor again changed my medications, a different less powerful pain-killer and other medications. My leg had also really started to itch in addition to the pain in it. Dr. John told me on his rounds that that was normal and indicated it was healing. It didn't feel like healing to me. The bandages had also been removed today. My first look at the leg was not encouraging. It was red and puffy where it wasn't black and blue. There were an awful lot of stitches visible, also. I was not a. Wives influence husbands. Daughters influence fathers. The more subtle we are, the more they think their decisions are truly theirs. That influence is poured down the drain in a divorce. That's the point of the Last Wives Club. By committing to staying with men who cheat on us, we gain more influence over what they do and more control, not less control, over our own futures. Providing that they do not totally suck as fathers, our children can benefit from not breaking the family up. Our. A gym colleague shared that he had also experienced a similar embarrassing problem and after extensive research found a female masseur who was prepared to do this on a “straight” basis. The others were all porn pimps! This lady came highly recommended and confirmed during our earlier telephone conversation that she would do a full bodied deep tissue massage, concentrating on the problem area, but emphasized my need for total relaxation to achieve complete muscle accessibility. As an added.