When a cousin or a pal would help me learn these things, I would end uphaving a crush on him (what I really needed was a dad). Since spankingswere one...type of interaction my dad did do, I ended up making this powerdisplay a central theme in my adult fantasy life. I thought that somehow,if my dad really whipped me hard (which he never did) it would somehow"make a man out of me."In the early sixties it was still common for dads to whip their sons inworking-class neighborhoods. I remember. I told him we couldn’t cuz we were waiting for our husbands to find us,” Tanya said. “And technically I don’t think it’s a strip club,” she added. “They never got naked.”“We explained the game we were playing with our husbands, waiting for you to find us maybe flirting with two sexy guys,” Addie said.“So, Jonah says, ‘what better place for them to find you, then.’” Tanya explained.“Mmm, and it was fun flirting with him,” Adriana said.“A little more than ‘flirting’ when I found you,” I. She is the only woman he had ever known that can give him a hard-on by saying "Hello."The fact that she is a lifelong, card-carrying lesbian and married to his sister meant that the vital skills he learned in the army kept him from making a fool of himself whenever she came to his apartment, and she came over a lot.JJ was a bigger geek than he was which was really saying something. She had always been fascinated by tech in all of its variations, and had, after college, been hired by a security. ‘Have fun,’ she told me with a devilish grin. ‘We’ll see you tomorrow some time,’ suggesting that she fully expected that I would stay out all night and maybe even go home with someone for a while. ‘If not sooner,’ I told her just before shutting the door behind me, suggesting that I might not. To my surprise, she opened the door and came out to give me a final kiss goodbye. ‘I’m living vicariously though you tonight . Don’t let me down Tiger.’ Then she slapped me on the ass and went back.