He never mistreated me and we shared our money so it was okay, but all in all it was just existing day to day, week to week. Smokin’ a joint was a b...g deal, due to our money situation. I knew there had to be something better, and it looks like I found it!”“I think maybe you have. Let’s shower and hit the bed.”They both stripped and took turns getting squeaky clean. They also mentally checked each other out. They were very close in size: around 34-C boobs, about 5', 5" tall and probably around. I request a table outdoors, as the weather is great today, especially for it being mid-spring. Our waiter leads us to our table, and looks slightly confused as my slave ignores the chair he pulls out for her, instead kneeling next to me. I turn my chair, facing her, slightly sideways to the table, and bend down to kiss her forehead and remove the leash. As the waiter approaches with our menus and drinks, I place the leash on the table and grant her permission to sit in her chair. We both order. She had grown her hair longer but this morning it had been tied back so it wasn’t so easily noticeable. Now she had it down and it reached to just above her shoulders and was trimmed straight round the bottom. It was a sort of reddish brown in colour and I realised I’d never noticed that before. ‘You’ve grown you hair longer,’ I said. ‘Yes, Peter said he’d like me to grow it longer so I…oh never mind him, do you like it?’ ‘Yes, it makes you look different.’ ‘Oh, well, we’d better get going.’. In addition to these weekly ‘reminders’ as to ‘who is the boss’, there were so-called punishment spankings.More than one couple had found that merely ‘milking’ the husband/boyfriend prior to their discipline would cumulate towards a more effective - read that ‘painful’ - result. Another issue seemed to be the choice of restraints to ensure that the submissive husband or boyfriend was held in place during their discipline - most especially for more salutary thrashings.I’d never imagined that I.