After around fifteen minutes and another few drinks a coloured man came over, he was Jake, the best man, 28 and slim. He said to Ted “I need some ai... I’m going to see if everything is Ok for tomorrow” and Ted said to me “Would you like to come and look at the set up”, needing some air myself I agreed.As we walked round the back of the hotel and on towards the wedding chapel area, it was a warm evening and I thought to myself ‘I couldn’t do it again could I’ we approached the set up and it was. Stone face showed shock and she pulled her hands to her face covering her mouth. Her eyes took on a haunted, almost frightened look and she said, "Don! What are you doing here? I didn't know you were coming home!"Don grinned at her and said, "Yeah, I didn't tell anyone. I was only granted the leave a couple weeks ago and I wanted to surprise everyone." He was looking around as if he was searching for something then he finally said, "Where's Tammy? I have really been dreaming about seeing. Kaku ek hath diye mamir guude angul cholachillo aar aano hath diye mamir dansha dansha mayee duto te hath bolachillo aar mayee tipchilo aar mami nijer duto chokh bondo kore kaku ke diye nijer mayee tepachillo aar guude kakur angul naranor sukh ta upobhog korchilo. Khanik khon pore kaku nijer hath diye mamir paa duto aste kore oopore tule dhore paa duto hantur kach theke mure diye mamir paa duto choriye dhorlo aar mamir khola aar choriye thaka ponder toaye ekta balish rekhe dilo. Balish ta. It wasn't the most direct but probably represented the easiest traveling. It also put us where there was a better likelihood of people living where we would travel.After some discussion, we decided to follow that route.We left for home the next day. The horses were well watered and our wagons were in good shape for the trip. We felt we were seasoned travelers used to weather and having an understanding of the land.We were, I believe, in Indiana when the storms struck. We had watched that.