She concluded that they would both do nicely in solving her current main problem, being home on a weekend without a date. It was past time, at least i... her opinion, that she stopped moping after Sonny and got on with her life. Sonny was the most exciting man she'd ever been with, but she was sure that there would be many more that could match the spark they'd seemed to have with each other.Friday night her date with Tom started out pretty well. He took her to the Olive Garden, they talked and. The next thing he knew Julia was shaking him to get up. He askedwhat time it was and she told him it was after six and he had a lotto do. He got up and arched his aching back. That cot was not acomfortable bed. He tottered into the kitchen. Julia took one lookat him and told him thee was a mirror in the laundry room for himto use to redo his make up. He went into the laundry room and looked in he mirror. He thenremembered his make up was in his purse in his room. He retrievedit and tried to. Our neighbor had borrowed a lot of money from Paw. He wasn’t good with it and he’d lost and now he’s got to pay it back. As they say, you can squeeze blood out of a turnip so we got a get-back in trade we figure. One thing he does have plenty of is daughters, four of them from age 16 to 20. We don’t have a Maw anymore so help around the house is something. They’re being offered $20 a day credit on the debt and double if they stay overnight.They came over one at a time to be interviewed by Paw. Whereas we men log on again and again, hour after hour, on the hour or half hour, day after day, week after week, month after yes OK we've got your drift... but we get one message. Usually an autoreply. Well not always.But it's a given that men have to spend a great deal more energy on making any kind of connection online than women do. Serve us right, I guess.But (and I know you shouldn't begin a sentence with but, let alone two in a row), there is a lesson in this for the ladies.All you have.