After they had finished the meal; Sam cleared the table and stacked the plates and dishes in the dish washer; set it going and walked out on to the te...race; the moon shone down reflecting on the heated swimming pool and Gina suddenly touched his arm; turning slightly to her he heard her say, "Fancy a late night swim?"Sam declined her offer and said, "I have to confess; I was hoping to show you one more of my newly acquired skills of a masseuse; and give you a full body massage with aromatherapy. " I did the only thing I could do, I said "Yes, of course she is."Fast forward 6 months and life has changed quite a bit for us. Cara is living with us and remains a shadow of her former self, barely functional. She can use the bathroom on her own and can feed herself, but other than that she's pretty much out of it. Jilly even needs to bathe her like a c***d each day. But what do you do? She's family, or at least she's Jilly's family, and you don't turn your back on your own however. I finally found my tongue and opened a conversation with the striking blonde beside me. ‘Cassie tells me you are a family friend.’ ‘Yes. My parents knew Denis and Cassie in Ottawa. We were neighbours.’ ‘Ah … yes … I grew up in Ottawa too. I met Denis and Cassie when I left the army and joined Denis’s company.’ ‘Oh … that’s right, you were with CSIS too.’ I was surprised that she knew Denis’s employer. I decided to be coy about probing for more information. Perhaps she would volunteer some. Mary was short and curvy, with what seemed to be a D cup, with nice hips and a firm bottom. And her red hair hung just below her shoulders. And when she put on her glasses for reading over a proposal she looked like the sexiest geek on the planet.You see, everybody at the office knew that I was career military, and the stereotype of that of course is somebody totally inflexible in their outlooks. I happen to be far from that, but nobody at work knew that yet. The reason they thought that would.