The chemistry between us was undeniable,we started openly flirting with each other, testing each other's self restraint, finding this little game exci...ing and captivating. One cloudy morning, RK left extremely early to go see a client and Mason and I were alone that entire day.We sat on the couch, having our morning coffee and chatting as always. I was wearing my silk pink nightie, and had a matching satin gown over, tied loosely at my waist. I don't sleep with any underwear so naturally I wore. " I paused and looked her in the eye. "I love you, Willie. And I respect you. Now, no more mystery, and no more melodrama! Tell me what's going on here! What do you mean 'I've killed him?'"She looked up at me, silent and tearful for a long minute, then disengaged herself from my arms and sat on the edge of the bed, looking down at her dangling feet. "Everybody wants to know the future. That's all they care about. The present is what's important. What's happening NOW, and WHY it's happening.... This doesn't always involve sexual activity. As one cuckold said, "I need sexual attention, not necessarily sexual activity." Without participation at some level, hubbies may feel it is less like a cuckold lifestyle and more like cheating. Wives would be smart to pay attention to cuckold hubby's needs also, perhaps telling by his erection or his ardor to identify what he enjoys the most.Even in those cases where the wife sees Her Lover alone, hubby can still participate by making his wife. Brad offered to drive me home in his SUV as my compact car would never make it home with all the snow that had fallen. We get to my apartment and I ask him up for breakfast. We head upstairs to my place and we have breakfast together, laughing over our escapade in the hospital bed as we lingered over coffee. He got up to leave, and I asked him to stay. "I have a queen size bed and a great shower." "Ok", he says and smiles at me. I lead him down to the bedroom and tell him to feel free to.