"You, hang up the phone with a sigh. You're girlfriend had just called to tell you that her flight home fro Dallas had been cancelled due to heavy rai... settling over Texas. She had been out of town on business for the last four days, and it sounded like she wouldn't be home for another few days. The two of you had been dating for the last 8 months, and had just recently moved in together. She was everything you ever wanted in a woman. She was 5'4, with blonde hair, brown and nearly perfect 36C. In the end it was much faster and easier than I could have everexpected. I told them I was looking for a piercing in each earlobe,and before I knew it I was in the back, with a nice girl with an arrayof showy piercings who introduced herself as Kali (pronounced more likethe the short version of California than the Hindu deity). This wasobviously not Kali's first rodeo, and after confirming what I wanteddone, she set to work so fast she had a stud in my right ear whilebefore I even knew she. Her mother spoke to her, "Susan, in the light of what we have heard from Tokunbo, I want to hear what you are looking for in your life ahead. Up till now, we have not gone beyond school in your plans for the future. In fact, I am unsure what you were thinking as you went through school, in the way of a career."Susan was surprised at how seriously her mother was viewing the future for her eldest daughter. She tried to respond in kind."Mum, up until recently, I was coasting, just enjoying school. The problem was that I DID love all of them, but the way they heard those words was different from how I meant them. When I had told Jennifer or Stephanie or Birgit that I loved them, it was with soul-crushing, all-encompassing, never-ending love. Love that nothing could ever break down. Something that really could not be put into words. Something that even ‘I love you’ didn’t really express.With Jennifer, it was the deep connection of our souls. It reminded me of the wedding service where the.