One thing that made all the difference going forward for me was developing a trusting relationship with the bar manager. My performance in my job and ...he way customers responded to me, gave him an initial incentive to be watchful and attentive. That quickly moved into protective and fatherly. Just knowing I had someone like him to intercede or to go to, made a tremendous difference.My relationships bounced from guy to guy with little interest in long-term commitments but more for fun … and sex.. Not only was she married but she'd had a little girl about 3 or 4 years earlier. Whether or not the father was her husband she wasn't quite sure. And Summer hadn't told Philip but she wasn't on any kind of birth control and her philosophy was "whatever happens -- happens" and if she got knocked up by Philip, she'd carry the baby and give it birth. She wasn't going to let her fertility or her having a baby get in the way of her sexual enjoyments at the office.The day before Philip first called. What sort of training did you get in your own army?”Trimble spluttered, “Training? We got no training, just issued with weapons and told to go practice with them,”“So you got no training in unarmed fighting?”“You mean fist fighting? We were warned not to fight among ourselves like that; just practice with our weapons.”John smiled knowledgeably at them. “Remind me to show you sometime how to fight without weapons, without even using your fists. For the moment, tell me a few basic facts about the. Well we talked about doing something kinky but it was difficult to get beyond the talking part .She would get all worked up and really horny as we lay there talking about the things I would like to see her do but if I tried to make them happen she would always back out. Well over time I got her to experiment with some things , she was turned on by the idea that strangers could see her naked and would often take strolls out into our back yard without a stich of clothing on and it really worked.