"Dick responded with Bluebells, "For they stand for Constancy andGratitude," he explained. Dot was much touched by this.They celebrated their ongoing ...eception by planting maidenhair fern,which conveys the thought of a "Secret bond of love, or Discretion".They had come to share a deep mutual affection, but must always bediscreet and careful to hide the truth of their relationship. They alsoplanted many humble daisies, for as we all know "daisies never tell"!Thereby the great secret would be. I am not much of a drinker at all but I know when I am getting drunk. Within a few minutes of our drinks arriving my hubby excused himself to go to the restroom. This made me uncomfortable and I wanted to go to the ladies room but he would have no part of that since I encouraged our being there in the first place. I am not sure if he was surprised or perhaps expected it but by the time he got back there were two men at our table attempting some small talk and introduced themselves as Bob and. Are you mad at me?”I was getting very emotional, “Baby, I could NEVER be mad at you! You know how much I love you. Now I know what that feeling was that I didn’t understand before. This is wonderful. I always want you with me like this. It’s like we are sharing the same soul! Tell Mary thank you for me.”I FELT her giggle! It was the most marvelous feeling I’ve ever had the good fortune to feel!!“You can thank her yourself! She and Sarah want us to bring them back a carryout. Linda’s coming with. After loading the car while I was unseen, I went back up to my office and started transferring half of the money out of all of our joint bank accounts into new accounts in my name only. I also cancelled all of the credit cards that were joint accounts. These moves effectively separated our finances, but did it in what I thought was a fair manner. Basically everything that was hers stayed hers, everything that was mine stayed mine, and everything that was ours, was either cancelled or split down.