Tandra was only two years younger than Sandra, and while Sandra and Tandra were always close as sisters, they both had quite different styles and tast...s in life, men, clothes and just about everything else.I am conservative in my approach to life, but I am not dogmatic; I am practical when it comes to decision making. I prefer to please others rather than myself, although I will admit to being a small bit selfish from time to time.When I married Sandra, Tandra pulled me aside and told me I was. . made her life miserable. Andy decided ... eventually ... that she had to limit her time in Bill's past. He was born in 1955 ... she in 1960. She realized that it was better to time it to the twenties and thirties than suffer Bill again. She had to move on.Her position was being filled by an adjunct professor ... sort of a floater ... good enough to teach but not brilliant enough to publish. She made a decision. It was time to get away.The faculty administrator was not pleased."You could have. The last time I was home we were playing Uno and I dropped a Wild-Draw-Four on her and she whacked me across the back of the head. It happens so often my Dad and little sister barely took notice.I remember when I was about eight years old or so, she was looking at something off in the distance. Her hand shading her eyes in the bright sunlight. She said, “What in the hell is that?” Little me was standing next to her and I said, “What in the hell is what, Mama?” Clout across the back of the. This might seem like trite advice, but Raven had looked over a recipe book with hundreds of recipes thinking that learning them all would be impossible. That alone had made learning to cook a daunting task. After listening to Alice, she realized that she could learn a few recipes at a time until she found the set that would satisfy her and others.Cat said, "She's okay. I think she's kind of pushy. The whole time she was here she was telling me how great Andrew is and what a great husband he.