But two things sped that process up. The first was that the funding was already there, and contractors could be told to begin work as soon as possible... The second was that, until that structure was completed, all of us were crammed in what had seemed like a fairly large house, before Kat and I got married. Now, with four adults, a child in his terrible twos, and a brand new baby in the house, the pressure to make progress was always there.In some ways, though, it was easier, with all of us. School. College. University. Job. School meant a few kisses, a fondle or two. College meant a real boyfriend, and is where I lost my virginity. University meant a bit more exploring and experimenting. But nothing, and I mean nothing, had prepared me for what was about to happen in my life.I met Emma at a networking event for my industry. She immediately grabbed my attention as her presence seemed to be greater than every other soul in the room. She is 31 years old (although you'd never believe. Jenny thanked Andy for her drink, then turned to face the others as he introduced her to the group he was with. After exchanging “hellos”, the group’s attention naturally shifted to Phillip, and Andy turned and asked Jenny how the tour went.Jenny said, “It was nice…I love all the opulence.” Then she caught Phillip’s eye, winked, and continued saying to Andy, “it was a little bigger than I expected, and it’s extremely impressive….it took my breath away.” Phillip smiled his understanding of their. We weren't... yet. After we all got a round of beers I said that I'd prefer to switch to scotch or rum, and I asked Matt and Lisa if they would like to head back to my place?That is what we did.On the walk back to my place we had to move their car so they didn't get a parking ticket and I mentioned to bring up their swimsuits in case we ended up in the rooftop hottub.Back at my little unit we had a real drink and the laughter continued. I think it was after two drinks that Lisa suggested we go.