" I call that mentoring. You got them to put aside any petty dislikes and help one another. I think that's one technique you can use." Mary, how about...competition?" Alex suggested."They're already competing with each other too much, Alex." No. I mean, can you make competition in Western Pleasure Riding a goal that brings them together?" Oh... Yes, I guess I could, but shows are all events for individuals."Sarah said, "Mary, here's a scenario. You get each girl to specialize in some aspect of. "Another guy hired me to stop his kid from being bullied." That is an odd job," Maeve said. "How did you do that?" I 'happened' upon them around the time the bully usually did his thing. As the bully was approaching the kid I said, 'Hi, ' and asked him if this was the jerk he told me about."Of course, I was a lot bigger than the jerk and an adult, so it wasn't like I could smack him around. The cops would have been all over my ass."So, I asked the crowd if anybody would help me demonstrate how. Abb mujhe kuch nazar nahi aaraha tha as they were in kitchen per unki awaj aa rahi thi.Meine suna unlogo ki baateinMaa: tum yaha pe kyun aagaye?Doodhwala: Bhabhiji Lagta hai aap ko kuch help chaiye?Maa: darte huwe kuch nahi tum jaao.Doodhwala: Dariye mat bhabiji mujhe boliye.Maa: Mere andar bengan phas gaya haiDoodhwala: Bas itni si baat chaliye mien aapki help kar deta hoon.Phir maa aur doodhwala haal mein aagaye. Aab mujhe sab dhik raha tha. Meine dheka ki doodhwale ne maa ko lita diya aur. Nun lag ich in meiner Kammer, hörte Musik und wartete auf das Wochenende. Dann sollte der Heimflug nach Hamburg stattfinden.Ich langweilte mich, überlegte, ob ich mir einen runterholen sollte, aber nur mit links ist es auch nicht so einfach. Trotz des alten Seemannsschnacks: Machs dir mit links von hinten, dann denkst du, es ist ein anderer.Plötzlich ging die Kammertür, ohne anzuklopfen, auf und eine schwarze Frau kam herein. So ca. 30 Jahre alt, schlank, mittelgroß und ansehbar. Nicht wirklich.