She stared at the items for a long time. Part of her really was exhausted and just wanted to sleep. Part of her remembered the excitement and intensit... of the previous sessions. She equally wanted to pick both but knew she had to pick one. Finally, she took out her notebook and wrote a quick note. Sliding it under the door, she picked up the mask and cuffs. As he watched her write the note and slide it under the door, he held his breath to see what she would choose. It was something unexpected.. "I don't want it around to remind me of you. If you keep it Mark won't have to buy you one. Consider it my wedding present."She picked up her two trash bags and headed for the door. She opened the door and turned to me and said:"I'm sorry Rob. I love you; I really do love you and I didn't do what you think I did."And then she was gone.She called me the next day and asked me if I was ready to talk with her and I hung up on her. She made a half dozen more attempts, but I always hung up and. Linda was surprised, and I later found out that she was waiting for me to make a move. I, shy as I am, believed that she was offended by the story. I only found out way later that she wasn’t. I really wish I had made a move that day.The dream went something like this - I dream of Linda being beat up by some asshole guy my age on the street at night. I saw the two, and proceed to challenge the asshole for her. He said, “bring it!” I beat his ass as I let instinct and rage take over. “My. I want to discuss these two topics before we start defining what needs to be regulated.Bill recognized Matt and sat down. Matt said, “Bill’s first question of how much is enough is very difficult to define. Most government organizations look at the question from the point of view of ‘How much is too much?’ and some organizations look at it as ‘What is the minimum necessary?’“From my personal experiences, I think we need more than the minimum and less than the maximum. Of course, certain areas.