She felt that coffee would be something she needed at this time. I reluctantly accepted her invitation.J made the coffee and it was a very strong brew... We sat at the dining table and made small talk about work while sipping the coffee. After an hour, I told J that I needed to go and would give her a call the next day concerning getting her car. Then to my surprise J said, “Hell! You can’t go yet. You haven’t fucked me”. What she said really took me by surprise and for some reason I said,. I wasn't burned out or anything but if I got it, fine; if not, that was okay also.I had to go fix some computers in an office about twenty miles away. I kind of liked these jobs when I could get away from the office. It was nice meeting new people also.I went to the reception desk and told the lady who I was. She contacted her boss who came out to see me. As I looked up, this beautiful woman looked at me. "Grace, Grace is it really you?" I was happy to see her."Oh, my God, Danny, where have you. And he likes it when I dressappropriately. So I wear dresses and slips and lingerie to make him feelthat I am feminine and I want him to take me as a woman. Yes, I wear a leotard when I exercise. Don't most women wear tightclothes so they can see the areas they need to work on? I get my exercisewear at a woman's dance site on line. I wouldn't buy the men's leotards.That's just gross! Men shouldn't wear leotards. Leotards and balletclothes are just for us girls. It's the same as the panties.. .. I shouldn't tell you this either but... your wife said protection was used so that's in your favor also."I thanked Mary and headed for home. What was I to do? How was I going to handle this after eighteen years of marriage. We have one daughter who just graduated and is going to college but living at home. What do I say to her? I had always thought we had a good marital relationship. We had sex or made love pretty regularly. In fact we did it just last week. God, I was all over her body that.