If she was worried, or had her doubts about any of this, I didn't want to be the one to talk her back into it. I was nervous about what we were planni...g to do too.I'd only had sex with Lisa and Nora, and only that one time with Nora. I wasn't that confident that I could live up to all the expectations that Nora had gotten started in Barbara's head. I was also worried about someone finding out about our doing this. If that happened, Carl, her boyfriend was going to tear me a new one. I had no. So me and Jay started talking about a week later he had invited me to his house, because he was "bored".not knowing he wasn't that far from me so i went to his house which was 10 minutes away. I was nervous at this point knowing that i am going to meet a guy not a girl and going to have my first encounter with a guy. I went to the door and someone opened the door and went back inside, so i let myself inside to find J standing there in his boxers only!He was wearing blue and red superman boxers,. Maybe just your Louis Vuitton wallet. A wee bit, you big, rich boy!What girls always notice on a date #3 YOUR CONVERSATION SKILLSGirls want a guy who knows how to keep his woman happy. So are you a smooth talker? Do you stutter and splutter and run out of things to say, half way through dinner and resort to “so you say something… no, no, you say…” to cover the fact that you have nothing to talk about? That’s not good. [Read: What to talk about on a first date with a girl] A woman wants to be. No woman had ever said 'pussy' to me before. Her face lit up. "Oh, Precious! You're blushing! I'm sorry." Here she got up from the card table and hugged me. I loved being in her arms and smelling her feminine perfume, her soft hands caressing me. She held me tight, playing with my hair. "Does it upset you if I say 'pussy', Johnny?" "Nnnoo Helen. Of course not." "What made you blush, Precious?" "Uh..I guess I'm not used to an adult talking that way. To me. Sorry." It's okay, babe." (She.