It does not diminish the male, it strengthens him to cast his Alpha state temporarily to the side. I am told that this is a sort of a "mental vacation..., where the male casts aside his role as Alpha and allows things to happen to him, rather than he dictating how things will happen.Once you have put forth the suggestion of your dating another man to your husband, I suggest a night out alone to test your ability to engage as many women can’t once the green light is given. Go slow, maybe a. You remember a few months ago when my cousin Arthur sent a letter sayin' they was hirin' fer the oil fields in Oklahoma, an' was I interested? I was thinkin' maybe I ought t' go down to the company store in the mornin' an' try to reach him on the telephone. Last I heard, he was still livin' at Aunt Clair's house near Tulsa."Mama kinda shrugged and said, "Ain't gonna hurt nothin' t' ask, is it?"Daddy put his arm over her shoulder and went on, "Ya know, Bess, I know the timin' ain't good, but the. I don’t know if I can do it, but I’ll try. Brenda said well let’s go for it. Brenda reached for a tube of Astro-Glide lubricant and squirted it all over her hand. Brenda immediately stuck two and then four fingers into my pussy and began massaging my vagina. It felt great she obviously did this a lot and the feeling of her slowly massaging the inside of my pussy was very pleasurable. Then I got a little scared. I watched Brenda form her hand into a fist. I looked down as Brenda’s whole hand was. Like most gifted c***dren, my brain borders between the genius and the crazy, and when I play I am lost, as if making love to this huge polished wooden monster, its feminine shape, balanced with the bow in my fingers, like the cock of a man being stoked, as my firm grip, and the caressing of the strings, can be likened to a cock caressing inside my immature fanny.I think about it as I play, I am unashamedly fucking in front of these people, like an unadulterated l****a, beautiful, serene, each.