But I never lie to women here, no matter who they are. I may embellish myself or write stories that are true but updated, etc. but as far as relating ...o another human being. I try to be honest.If you are gay, tranny, etc. so be it. Only one person can judge you and from what I hear He/She gives you an opportunity to repent at the last breath. So I live life here truthfully, as far as I can without revealing myself because there are others involved who are friends I will never betray, and. I realized I could not get the location on my back no mater how hard I tried. So I thought well I will call out for her to see if she could help. "Hello young lady, Hello could you come to the door please" in just a few minutes she was at the door. "Yes sir can I help you" "Well yea maybe, I can not get the lotion on my back do you have any suggestions" She laughed "Your not the first person who has had that problem and if you unlock the door I will put the lotion on your back for you" I was. I climbed down off my ladder and decided to go say hi, Apparently she had decided to make use of the time she had before my wife got home from work in an hour and a half, I walked out of the utility room to the family room which took about three minutes from the time I heard her leave the spare room to the time I got to the family room.As I approached the couch I seen one of her feet sticking out over the arm of the couch, I thought it was strange but approached anyway, As I leaned over the. They communicated through text messaging only, which is thought by the WestHems to be uninterceptable. They met either in Amanda's apartment or in Loraine's house when her husband and children were not at home. They never met in a hotel room or in any place where a transaction record would be generated. This affair was never discovered by the woman's husband or any of Amanda's friends as far as we can tell. There is obviously no record of it in the background investigation she underwent prior.