When we talked to Poppa and Momma that night over the radio, Poppa suggested that we look to outlying areas. He also wanted us to detour over to the O...efenokee Swamp and see how it was doing without much in the way of people. After looking at the map, it would have been closer from Tifton and then come to Valdosta. We humored Poppa and I am glad we did.The next morning, we left for the swamp heading northeast toward Waycross. It was a quiet ride and we could see the landscape change as we rode. I mean who would really know besides the girl?"My mother answered this one for me. She said, "Rachel, on your wedding nightwhen your new husband makes love to you, you will know right away." I gotit!I said, "Ok, I understand, but there must be many girls who for some reasonor other no longer have their hymens intact."Harriet answered this one, "Yes, Rachel, there are many causes when thishappens, but if it is not a medical one it is still considered to be taboo."Grace added, "In today's world. “Sure you do. Didn’t you say there was a difference between what you want and what you should do?”“I did. But honestly, Jennifer and I still have issues. She still should have talked to me about this!”“Yes, she should have. And you should’ve quit trying to have your cake and eat it, too. But you didn’t. You did it to Jennifer, then you did it to Kara. In fact, you’re still doing it to Kara. But events have been set in motion, so you’ll have to work through them. Of course, you could commit to. I got us tickets to go see Elmo live! I say as I see her eyes light up. Really!?! she says as she clasps her hands together. I nod. Thank you thank you thank you daddy! she says as she leans over and embraces me tightly. I smile feeling her warm touch. When is it? she asks after she fixes her hair. Well I was thinking maybe we can go and eat McDonalds, and then we can go get our front row seats. I say winking at her. She screams with happiness. Daddy I love you so much! You are the bestest.