Then he said, ‘Do not call anyone, please.’ His voice was relatively clear, with no trace of accent. In the glow of the light fixture at the back ...f one of the buildings framing the alley, I could see him now as I got closer. He was Black. I do not simply mean that he was African-American, he was really Black–as in African ‘Black.’ ‘I just need a moment,’ the man said as he rose now to one knee, took a couple of deep, testing breaths, and then extended one hand, obviously seeking for my. I found out later why. Anyway, I managed to make it to the summer of my freshman year before losing my virginity. He was a junior and talked about it to others. My mother had put me on the pill two years before that.“I became popular with guys because I quickly gained a reputation for being willing. After the Senior prom, I spent the night with my then boyfriend who invited three of his friends to help him. They gang banged me that night. I was a little drunk but I knew what I was doing. He. He brought my food. When I opened the door, he scanned me from top to the bottom, as if he was undressing me in his mind. I took the parcel from him and went inside to get the money. While I was walking, I could sense him staring at my ass. So, I decided to drop off something accidentally so I could give him a clear view.When I bent down, my robe entirely came up, showing him a clear view of my ass! And then I went and brought the money. I handed him the money and was about to close the door. ..” said Candace.“Candace, nothing needs to change in any big way. But ... you are about to meet the man, that great man,” he said.“Candace, he does not know about you. The reasons are so complex that trying to tell you everything in one go is going to be a real challenge, but that’s why you are sitting where you are right now. I need you to hold all of your questions, comments, thoughts what all until we are through laying things out for you here, now. Can you do that for me, us,” said Ava..