Would you like to order an appetizer? Do you know whatyou want for dinner, or would you like a few moments to decide?" Please give us a few moments. I...know I will want a glass of houseCabernet Sauvignon with dinner. Patti?" I will also have a glass of Cabernet. Let us review the menu. We arenew to this area." Welcome. I will get your wine and be right back." Oh, Patti. They have escargot. I am a connoisseur of fine escargot.This could determine whether we use this as a regular. Four decades, plus a myriad of additional years have not dimmed my memory of that first time or the feelings that went along with it.I could go on about that one life changing event that happened to me with a stroke by stroke recant. But that's not really the reason behind my telling this story. I only mention it to underscore how a single event can change our life and that of others.You see, I'm not really talking about "MY" first time here but about the time it didn't happen. Jackie is who. This was common for us to talk about sex. It was after a month or so after this incident that she had not come to my factory. One day and I called her, she said it is too hot and can’t come today. I said but I m missing her as she has not come to the factory for more than 3-4 days.She said I can come to her place to meet but she was not interested to step out of her house. I said okay I am coming to your home. The moment I reached her home and rang the doorbell, I was shocked because she was. "Not too good. The school district won't reconsider my suspension until after it's over, so I've got a two week involuntary vacation." I'm sorry to hear that, but it does make things easier from our perspective. We've had a couple of calls that you might be interested in." Oh?" The House of Representatives is holding hearings on a bill that would increase reporting requirements for rape cases and they want you to testify." I don't know what I'd say." That's ok. They want you Friday so I'll have.