I invited him into the house and made small talk with him. He complimented me on how good I looked in my my dress and heels. I was a bit embarrassed b...t showed him to the room he was working on. I got some wine for myself and he wanted water. I went into the room and sat on a chair and watched him work for a bit. My legs were exposed as I sat there and he kept glancing at my legs as he worked. His looks were getting me worked up so I decided I better leave the room to do some chores.I usually. My intention was to walk to the top of the waterfall rather than the pool below. I was curious to see if the stories were true; that is possible to jump safely off the top of the falls. And also to explore the area behind the falls, perhaps even find a cave behind! It was from that upper vantage point that I saw movement below; surprising, since it was so early on a Sunday morning, when you’d expect everybody to be at mass, in an area where many still practice the old religion. I looked closer. Men get to call themselveswomen just because one morning they say they are? That's messed up." It's not that simple. And I didn't ask to be like this," I said. "I justwant--" --understanding. Yeah, I get it. But when you kicked over one of thepillars of my beliefs, where was your understanding then?" So I shouldn't get to live my life just because you're not comfortablewith it?" I don't begrudge you living your life, but I do begrudge me and minehaving to rearrange our lives so that you can be. It dangled from a thick leather strap which she wielded it liberally on the girls' butts when she thought they needed extra motivation to perform to their potential."Coach Gorilla Tits"? Nicole shot back."Gorilla Tits"? I repeated, taken aback."Yes, that's what everybody calls her!" Nicole exclaimed, not believing my ignorance.I had never heard this particular slang name for my friend and sometime lover, but I vowed to keep a straight face in front of Nicole."Well, Nicole, is it okay with you.