"I guess now is as good a time to settle this as ever."He explained that the debt, with interest, had now topped $8 million."Even if I foreclose, I wo...'t reap half that," he said. "I'd love to work something out with you."I told him there was simply no way I could come up with the money to make a substantial payment on the loan. I offered a counter proposal."Look... I'm going to become a lawyer," I said, modestly detailing my academic record. "Eventually, I'm going to be making a fortune. What. My marriage bed. Previously soiled by my wife.Later that week, Friday, I’m sure, Jess once again came home to a darkened house. I heard her say, “Shit!”, as she entered, and once again, all the lights were off. This time, she headed straight to the bedroom, only to find me, and two gorgeous 30-something black women having sex. When she arrived at the doorway, and saw what we were doing, her eyes opened as wide as saucers. “What the fuck is going on here?, she demanded.“I’m fucking these two. My tears ran down my cheeks and onto Pauls shirt. Being the person he was he didn't say anything, just stroked my hair until I had calmed down.Sorry Trish, if it hurts you, he said, but I am not going to change. And I have never tried to impose my sexual fantasies into our love life.I heard what he said, and agreed, he had never mentioned animal sex to me. And we had been together for three years.I lifted my head up, looked him in the eyes, and said I was wrong, and I would like a chance to. So what you’re saying is that you had one of those feeling that Tommy and I were going to sleep together. Is that what you’re saying?”“No, what I’m saying is that I knew he was the one for you. I kind of had a feeling that you two would sleep together but I wasn’t sure. I’m not saying that I wanted the both of you to sleep together. Actually I was hoping that you wouldn’t but it did happen so there is nothing that can be done about that. I’m just glad you’re on birth control. I really.