I can't get married." She wailed."What does Chad say about that?" He doesn't know, I fake it." Sara, I am going to give you and Chad a Valentine's gif.... You and Chad come over to my apartment tomorrow night at eight. I will hypnotize you and you will never have the problem again." Can you really do that?" She was sniffling through her tears."Oh, yes. That is easy. You probably are trying and that never works. If I can do that is Chad your man?" Oh, I love him. I just couldn't marry him, knowing. But a woman’s body is built so that first comes emotional openness, then sexual flow. That is, most women don’t want to open sexually until they are first open emotionally.For masculine essence-men, energy opening comes first, then emotional opening. Such a man often needs to feel pleasurable, sexual energy flowing - his woman’s hair against his groin, her lips on his neck, her nipples brushing his thigh - before he is relaxed and attracted into life enough to want to open emotionally. The. Steve ok?" Yeah. You popped his shoulder out. Beth got between you two before you could get him again. I popped it back. He's sore but cool." OK. Good. Am I under arrest?" What? No. Shit, dude, he's more freaked than you. That was so fuckin'..." Language." I cut in. My head was beginning to throb but I think I'm starting to piece the missing moments together."Huh? Oh, right. Sir. Uh, yeah. No, Dr. Steve's writin' his resignation an' tryin' not ta slit his own throat." He sees me start and stops. And so the evening had gone, Steffi and I dancing some of the slower dances and leaving the faster ones to Mike and Jan. They walked back to the table as there was a short break in the music. Mike went off to the bathroom as Jan sat down for a little rest. "Steffi, thank you for loaning me Mike for the evening. Sven, as you know, doesn't dance much and this evening has been great. Haven't had as much fun for ages." Just then the music restarted with a slower tune for a change. Jan grabbed me.