Everyone says you’re OK.”‘Fuck, ‘ I thought, ‘only OK.’ I told her, “Well what about you? You OK?”She sighed, “Look I’m not lookin... for any kind of forever thing. We get married. We stay married until my baby comes. Then we have a fight. We split up, and my baby has a name. My reputation, such as it is, stays clean, and you get to go back to being whatever it is you are.”I had to ask, “Well is it that you think I are?”She leafed through this volumous purse she had with her, found a sheet of. I froze for an instant at the touch and thenrelaxed thinking she was asleep and it as just an accident, no big deal. Idid not want to wake her up so I held still. Actually her hand felt quite nice there and I felt myself wettenslightly. I was embarrassed by that but could not get my mind off her handand the effect it was having on my body. I listened to her breathing and found it to ragged, not the slowshallow breath of someone asleep. Was she awake and doing this on purpose?I. . as it turned out, all that effort trying to keep my pants from bulging was wasted effort, as she answered the door wearing nothing but the wetness from her just-finished shower."don't stand there staring, you know this is what we wanted from the moment u bumped into me in the d**g store, pretending it was an accident." i didn't know she knew i knew she knew, but i was glad she did. "hurry up and close the door you're letting a draft in." one thing i do know is that men love to be seduced. we. Mabasha), partner of mashoga; msagaji, msago (pl. wasagaji, misago), "grinders," lesbians —Mombasa (Swahili) soronés, pages —Mossi (More) tinkonkana, boy wives —Mpondo/Pondo (Pana) koetsire, sexually receptive males; soregus, friendship bond; ôa-/huru, /huru, mutual masturbation; /goe-ugu, "tribadie" —Naman/Hottentot/Kaf-fir agyale, "friendship marriages" (sex denied) —Nzema eshenga, gender-mixing male shamans —Ondonga (Ndonga) a bele nnem e bango, "he has the heart [aspirations] of boys".