This summer, however, that was to change. Our kids had recently grown up and flown the nest and I noticed a discreet but very noticeable, increase in ...ur sex life. Although never bad, it had been found wanting the last few years – be it pressure of work or, whatever, it could have been better. One Saturday we had been out shopping and Sue bought herself a denim miniskirt and low cut blouse. Although perhaps slightly young for her, I thought – hey ho, I could be in for some fun tonight – how. It was the morning of the 19th and I was up at the crack of dawn getting ready for an adventure. It was Lucy’s idea getting up early she said you don’t want to be rushing about at the last minute. It finally got round to 8am, time to leave. Lucy gave me a massive kiss and cuddle, and said don’t forget, you have to get me a nice Irish present, whilst pushing me out the door, I quickly gave her another kiss on the doorstep, and said you sure you want me to go, yes she said giggling, I want my. I know,” I sighed.“Come on! This isn’t a death sentence! If you love Penny as much as you say you do, then talk with her. Have fun with her. Maybe spend time playing, you know having fun sex without focusing on it being perfect lovemaking. Sure, make love once in a while, but explore and have fun. And when Jennifer comes here, you better put your usual ‘heart and soul’ into your physical relationship with her. You’re not ready to do otherwise.”“I officially nominate you as my confidante. But. She didn’t always come into the lounge on Fridays but she knew he’d want to hear about her date. Although she wanted to share her news with Joel, she was still apprehensive about telling him that it was Alex Perdue. Especially since he’d spent the night. Maybe I could leave that part out, she thought as Joel poured her a draft beer. ‘Don’t be mad if I have to run away,’ Joel told her as he leaned his hands on the bar in front of her. ‘I want to hear everything but it’s an absolute zoo in here.