At this time I was in a different job and working days regular. I had my ears pierced twice ,and grew my hair longer. I was always wanting my wife to ...ye her hair red, and one day in the supermarket when she was selecting a colour, I picked out a red I liked, and told her to try it. She got a bit mad with me, and said you dye yours red if you like I am not. Of course I gladly took up the offer. Loved it! until the vibrance of the colour faded. I then decided I wanted to go blonde, and a friend. Not wanting or caring to face what might be inside his head, not needing to. Excusing himself from the need to face emotions to understand them and to accept the reality that she really doesn’t and/or never loved him, that he was just ‘something is better that nothing’. Once again, he keeps telling himself that he has to realistically and truthfully ask himself, is he being foolish? Is she going to take the steps to make things right, are we ever going to be ok and/or friends again? Or is she. "I'lltry to break it to Kathy, and get her into her new sexual preference,before she sees Sophie. Don't bring Sophie in until I tell you, okJennifer?"So fast forward through Kathy's treatments. She was having a great time,getting pampered and "beautified," and was thrilled to see her newclothes and jewelry come into the room and looked forward to putting theclothes on when she was finished. Unlike Steve's experience, Kathy alsogot a nice tote to carry her old things home in.Amanda was very. " See, you're already assuming that you could handle it, and you're just worrying about Paul. What would it take to ease Paul's ego problems?" Ego? Yeah, you're right. The only thing I can think of is for him to be involved, too," Norma answered."I'll have to think about that," Shannon said. "So, what's up for this weekend?" Well, Dr. Waxman is coming over again, for one thing." Then, Norma told Shannon some of her other plans as they shared friendly giggles.When Paul dragged in from the office.