I’ll explain each a bit and include a bit of a vignette to demonstrate. If I were to plot these on a graph because I’m a math nerd, the two axes w...uld be his pleasure and your pleasure. Both of these are just purported pleasure, though. Obviously, in all these cases, hopefully both you and the recipient are thoroughly enjoying everything. But the difference lies in, outwardly, who is this supposed to primarily benefit?The NonchalantOne possibility is to approach the matter as nonchalantly as. We headed out to Denerim on foot; every night, after making camp, I spent time strengthening Alistair's self-confidence and loosening his sexual inhibitions. I was making progress; the self-deprecating jokes got less frequent, without otherwise altering his personality. I was beginning to realize I'd fallen in love with the awkward, adorable, utterly gorgeous warden. It was strange – as someone with the power to shape those around me to my will, I was curiously reluctant to change anything. I push the power button and it comes on no problem. I say “It seems to be working now.” I turn to say something stupid.Bekka is sitting on the edge of the bed naked. I’m in shock a little bit. Shesays, “I want what mom got the other day before you set up mycomputer.” “What,?” I fumble for words. “I went to see mom just beforeyou set up my computer up. Your car was there but when I went inside Icouldn’t find you two. Till I heard mom’s groaning from the bed room. Iopened the door to see you. Well, Hermione is right, he replied curtly. We have things to do. Pansy laughed, her laugh the trill of thousands of frozen bells. I would let you go, but you see, Im being very merciful to give you this chance to talk with me, Weasley. You dont want to waste this opportunity. What the hell are you talking about, Parkinson? asked Ron, a look of impatience and misunderstanding on his face. Do you love her? Pansy asked Ron bluntly, and for a moment her voice seemed even more aggressive. Ron.