Phase I. Building a foundationThis is an especially critical phase. This is not because anythingof great significance is accomplished. Quite the contr...ry, to theuninitiated observer nothing is going on! It is however thefoundation on which all else is built. Errors or carelessness herecan cast ripples throughout the process and cause great difficultylater. The objectives here are gathering intelligence, developingthe initial plan, taking a few initial small steps and mostimportantly learning to. I couldn’t find the words to tell her that I had lost my virginity. It’s not like I had broken some promise to her to save myself for when or if we were ever ready to more from friendship to relationship. I just didn’t know if this information would change how we were. Finally I decided how I was going to tell her. I quickly ripped out a piece of paper and wrote down that I had lost my virginity while I was away in Europe. I quickly folded the piece of paper before she could read over my. I went to the bathroom, still too embarrassed by my stupidity to be able to meet her eyes, much less admire her the way I usually did.I answered nature’s call, took a quick shower, brushed my teeth, and generally got ready for the day. It was routine enough that I could almost pretend yesterday hadn’t happened.I went back to the bedroom to get dressed. Katrina sat at the foot of the bed. The towel was gone. She hadn’t even gotten dressed while I was in the bathroom. I knew why. She wanted me to. And loud enough anyone outside the front-door downstairs could have heard that. "No, I don- EEEK!" She shrieked again as he tugged on her again and pulled her to a side. "No don't make me scream- EEK!" He made her scream a girlishly high-pitch squeal, again. This was fun. He'd done this before about a month ago, and discovered how much he like making her embarrassed like this. Shela cupped her face in her hands so she could hide her face, while making such "childish" sounds. For goodness sake.