" "There was," I told him, "but it didn't work out." That was all I planned to say about it, but he started probing. He gradually got out of me that I...was so nervous when we tried to have sex that I couldn't get it up. She took offense, didn't understand my explanation, and that was it. "And you haven't tried since?" I explained that that was only a couple of months ago that it got to that point. To get off the subject of me I started asking him about himself. He was divorced, had been for a. “Maybe you should have thought about it before you climbed naked into my bed,” I said, as gently as possible.“I know,” Katy sighed. “I’m afraid that if I tell him he’ll dump me. Then where am I?”“Your friends will still be here. And there are other guys out there. The question is, can you live with yourself? When I cheated on Kara, I couldn’t. I went straight to her and confessed. Immediately. And she forgave me. I actually had bigger problems with Bethany, Jennifer, and my little sister than I. He was visiting for the weekend and going back on the Bank Holiday Monday. We were both at our parents for Sunday lunch when the conversation turned to my brother and his works summer party and he said he was going to give it a miss after splitting from his girlfriend mum as usual on at him that he had to go and then suggested that he takes me at the time we just laughed and it was left at that.As my brother was staying with me he was making comments that it wasn’t a bad idea if I did come. I. ’ I replied. We ran through the gamut of small talk and were just getting into much deeper conversation when she said that this was where she lived. I was about to tell her to have a nice evening and that we should meet again some time when she invited me in for a drink. I couldn’t refuse, so I found myself walking into a modest and well-furnished apartment. She asked me to have a seat while she went and made some coffee. I took this time to take in my surrounding and my situation. There were.