You’ve helped me accomplish more in two days then I thought I’d get done in a week.” “This has helped me too. I haven’t done much since my ...usband died. Being a young widow in our country is hard, especially if you have some western thinking.” “Why is that?” “Most Indonesian men don’t appreciate an educated, somewhat independent woman. Also, most men looking for wives want women who are…sexually inexperienced, I forget the word.” “Virgin?” “Yes, a virgin. And me, I liked having sex. I. He’s a short chubby gray haired senior citizen named Peter, who at 73 is 2 years older than my father. Of course, his wife Sue was not in the car with him. I have talked to her a few times. She’s a nice older Polish woman, also short and with gray hair, but much thinner than her husband, with fairly large breasts like I often see on Polish women, except that they hung much lower on her frame than I imagine they probably did a few decades earlier. I remembered she had recently celebrated her. I still haven't heard any more about her brother."As if that comment had stimulated some sort of psychic phenomenon, my cell phone rang and I saw it was Mrs. James. Something told me it was bad news."Hi, Mrs. James. What's the news?I heard a sniff and a catch in her breath and knew what the news was. "Hello, Terry. Just called to let you know that Emile passed away this afternoon. The pneumonia was just too much for his heart."She had to stop for a few moments to regain control. "Uh, well, the. “I hope your husband knew he was invited as well.”“Oh, Jacob,” she smiled. “My husband has been singing with the heavenly choirs for five years now. Which is unfortunate for the celestial host as he was a terrible singer.”“I’m sorry, ma’am. I didn’t mean...”“We don’t bring life histories into the classroom,” she cut me off. “There is no way for you to have known and I do appreciate you thinking highly enough of me to offer the invitation. You are doing quite well and I’m happy that I agreed to.