I'm here for my training day?" It was his first day with me and I'd never seen him before. He'd come down for 2 months from Australia and wanted to tr...in while he was down here, I was assigned him because I was the only one available the whole month, Boy was I happy! "Hi, Yeah come on in" I said stumbling on my own words. He was toned enough already without training even more. His olive skin glistened in the sun and as he looked up from his sunglasses with his brown eyes my heart did a. Freezing cold water was my reward for doing my meditation in the shower. Oh well what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger I suppose. Snatching the rough white towel down from over the shower curtain rod, I pushed open the shower curtain and started drying myself off. The loud thud from down the hall made me take off with just a beach towel wrapped around me. Turning the corner too fast into Mother’s room, my wet feet slipped and slid on the smooth bedroom floor, dumping me onto my plump ass. ” “Yes. I’ve been thinking about it, aware that you still watch me around the office.” It was true. I’d been aware that, bending over a filing cabinet she was more or less ladylike depending on whether anyone else was around. Her arse, round, tempting, provocative even, always made me hard. I said, “And now you don’t mind?” “No.” “Where do we go from here then?” Beverley looked outside, then closed the door. “Everyone else has gone.” This time there was no mistaking the invitation. . Understanding how to use empathy as a parenting tool will enhance and integrate all the techniques you already use and all the knowledge you may already have derived from your own experience, from other parenting books, or from other resources you may have accessed. There are many wonderful parenting books and seminars available, most will emphasize how important it is to show empathy and validate your child's feelings. What is not discussed is how to do it. Being empathic is a complex.