Those men putthemselves in front of the relationship all the time. I made excuses forthem. That they needed to mature, they what guys did, or the wors... onethat their behavior was normal . Adults do not need to mature, guysmight act in that self centered manner but men don't and being stuck inarrested development is not normal behavior.I was lucky, my first date after breaking up with the man of my life waswith a man of my dreams. Oh, Shawn Levesque was right out of my dreams.He was tall, 6'5".. After a while, my lovely wife broke the silence, “I did promise you something special, and she IS something special, and I’m like a bitch on heat, and for the first time I really want to taste pussy and have someone do the same for me, and I brought lube if we try anal, and I really love you …“My love,” I interrupted her stunning ramblings, “there’s only one thing to do with a bitch on heat, and I’m your man. I’m as nervous as hell and I can see you are too, but provided there’s no jealousy. I have to admit, Lucy, I was extremely jealous the night of your fantasy and it just made me determined to have my fun as soon as possible. Are we all happy with the arrangements, anybody got any questions?”Everybody looked at one another, and a few questions around membership, what to wear and the likes were quickly dealt with.As the group went to leave at the end of the evening, Charles stopped and asked, “You said there are four fantasies left to go, whose will be outstanding at the end of. Some of the existing personnel are scheduled for required recertification at our training facilities in Maryland and with the extra audit personnel on site, this is an appropriate time to complete that training.We will have a number of technicians and security personnel conducting this audit. The audit may take up to two weeks. This group of personnel will strive to do their work in a manner that will not disrupt any college classes or other college activities. Much of the work may be done.