If he is at all uncooperative during this first three months, you should add additional time to his lock up. I gave Mark a one week extension as a war...ing about whining about getting out and a one month extension the second time he more bluntly told me he needed out. After that there were no more incidents but I was seriously considering three months for the next offense. I tend to agree that with the more experienced women that I talked with that you cannot be too strict with respect to the. She was as good as her word. Eventually.We logged on to her back up server and cleaned off the files she had there. Ilooked through them before we hit ?delete?, it looked like scanned copies ofall the stuff we?d seen in the paper files as well as the data stuff from herlaptop. She needed a bit of a slap before she owned up to the second back upset. But, after all, she had promised to show us the back ups. Plural. Iput the gag back on her while we rooted around for a while longer. I was. 'Listen Roxanne', I began my advice lecture, 'In such a situation you take the boy aside, lead him into the bushes, and wank him off', her mouth fell open, her lips were dry, 'Or fuck him', I concluded.I could see her brain working overtime behind her sky blue eyes, and to add fuel to the fire I had just stoked, because sometimes it is better to get the message home crudely, I concluded, 'Wank it or use it, that why God made us sweetheart, and put us in charge of these young men', and at that I. ‘You’ve made a man of me today, Nora,’ Jim says, a coddled whisper, and I smile. It’s rare to have a fellow say such a thing and I feel a small bit of power rise up through me, a small bit of joy. * A horse called Throwaway won the Gold Cup at Ascot. So I’m told by a man whose hotel room I’m cleaning. The man shouldn’t be in the room while I’m here. Or I shouldn’t be in the room while he’s here. One of the two. But I’m so shocked by his attire that my brain can’t decide which it is. The man is.