I waited in excitement in the car till time to go pick her up. As I drove up, Sheri and Kathie walked out the front door. They hugged briefly and Sher... came to the car.She looked a little dazed but was smiling. I noticed that her shirt was buttoned wrong.As she got in I asked, “Everything go OK?”“Yeah, everything was fine, just fine.”We drove home in silence and went right to bed. Sheri never said one word about what happened.As soon as I got to work on Monday, I hunted down Kathie.“Well, how. We rented this large house on the beach in Mexico and it was beautiful. The house had two large master bedrooms and two smaller rooms for my younger daughters. We also went to Mexico with several friends that rented homes right next door to ours. One night we all gathered at my house to have fun and drink several margarita. It started getting late and I was feeling buzzed so I decided to turn in the woman already had gone to sleep as they were going to get up early and go shopping. The guyz. I played a part in a person's sick plan to humiliate you.We are making amends for what I did. Life is not a sitcom so it is going tobe bumpy and you will feel anger at me. If you hold it in and I do notbecome a better mom the anger will become resentment. I do not want you tofeel that way towards me."Her words were tough love because she had to come clean on hertransgression. She had to admit she knew and understood why her son was madabout what she did. If not Ron could see her actions as just. Use it." And here I am.But I'm in the trailer showing Cindy stuff. "Onions. Take an onion the size of a tennis ball," I said. "Chop it up. Heat the pot, put a little oil in there, then turn the heat down and let it get brown. You gotta do it slow." Is that sauteeing?" she asked."No, with sauteeing, you can crank the heat up. All you want to do with sauteeing is get the onion to sort of turn translucent. This is caramelizing. Different texture. Different flavor. You'll see. And the grease? That.