A real dominant doesn’t need to be abusive to get results. To force someone to do what you want just because you are bigger and stronger doesn’t m...ke that person a dominant. Sorry but I remember when you came here and how much healing that you went through. I was so afraid that you would see all people in this lifestyle like him and they are not. Anyhow back to the subject of spankings, you asked how a spanking could make me feel safe and loved. To do that I would like to ask you a question. I'd slept a lot in the last three months and needed activity, both physical and mental that did not get me shot, to build up my stamina.Catherine was the embodiment of the sexy, woman-of-the-world, as she reclined against a stack of pillows, naked, with a corner of the sheet trapped between her legs. Her satiny hair spread out around her on the top pillow, and her pink tinged skin cried out for attention.Thinking about what was underneath the corner of that sheet, did nothing to help me decide. Then, he felt Amara's breath in his ear. She whispered one word. "Sniff!" Wh ... Wh ... Wh ...?" I said 'sniff'. Sniff her butt. You must!" Wh . . . Wh . . . Never. You can't make me ever do that," he managed to say although with stuttering difficulty."I don't have to make you." Wh . . . What?" I am not commanding you, I am giving you permission. You will sniff her butt on your own. It is what you crave. And, you have permission. It is what you want. It is what we want. It is what she wants.. He admitted he still does sometimes. Anyway, my libido is totally in control of me these days and yes, I’ve already cheated on Randy. It wasn’t my fault though. Randy’s day off is Thursday, so we usually wait to use that “dust” stuff until Wednesday night. That way we’ll have a day to recover before he returns to work on Friday. Believe me, we need it too. After six or eight orgasms, we are sore, fatigued, and totally exhausted for at least 24 hours. The rest of the week, we fuck without using.