Then we met each other one day by chance in a grocery store. It was a very cold day in January, and we talked for a while as we walked through the sto...e together. There was the proverbial unspoken dialogue going on between us, as for some reason there was an attraction that day which had never surfaced in two prior years of acquaintance. But for some reason, on that cold day, something clicked and there was more subtext going on than actual talking. A pencil in a purse. A receipt from an ATM. A. He told me he had a nasty divorce and couldn't trustwomen and found crossdressers a good alternative, but he was all top.He nibbled my ear, massaged my back and then my inner thigh - My eyeswere glazing over and I grabbed Cindy and drug her to the powder room totalk. I told her I had never felt like this before, my hormones wereraging, I wanted....... No I NEEDED to go home with him. She gave me arubber from her purse and said just call her if I need anything /anytime. But I had to agree to. As the semester progressed, however, our workloads increased and our letter writing diminished. Photographs and memories helped to overcome our physical separation, but even those could only do so much.Redmond O'Rourke was one individual who did not have to rely upon photographs to appreciate Caitlin's beauty. He enjoyed that opportunity each morning in a small coffee shop near the university. Mr. O'Rourke, or more officially Assistant Professor O'Rourke, was a member of the staff of the. I realized how bad I needed what he gave me. It was not just the orgasms, although they were important, but it was the human touch. It was being wanted; feeling loved and needed; feeling as an essential equal partner. He helped me change my life that night. I would never be the same.We talked a bit more, then I showered, dressed and thanked him for everything that happened that night. I am not sure he ever would really understand what he had done. How many one night stands get thanked for their.